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It is quite common to find it difficult to sleep after a breast cancer diagnosis due to both the physical issues following on from surgery and treatment, and the emotional issues that people face in light of a diagnosis. In this article, Emma Herring provides some insight and advice. Please note that this article has been researched and written from a patient experience and we encourage you to speak to your medical team about your personal situation.
By Emma Herring
“I just want to sleep”, is a phrase I often said when I was going through my treatment for primary breast cancer, writes Emma.
After the shock of my diagnosis and then going through surgery for a mastectomy and reconstruction, chemotherapy, further surgery to remove lymph nodes and then radiotherapy, my sleep patterns were all over the place.
There are several things I found that helped and we’ve also gathered some advice and tips from experts on mindfulness and breathing techniques that may help you.
I had to learn to sleep in a new position after my mastectomy: lying on my non-surgical side too uncomfortable, so I slept on my back. I bought a v-shaped pillow and propped myself up so I was sitting up slightly. This was also because I had a couple of drains in after surgery. I had a cloth drain bag that I carried them around in and at night I left the drains in the bag and had them lying by my side. It took a few nights to adapt but I still sleep on my back some five years later! To protect my back, I was advised to put a pillow under my knees which really helped and again it’s something I still do.
I often found I woke up a lot in the night, especially when I was taking steroids during my chemo cycles. I had spoken to a psychologist, and she recommended that I got up rather than lie in bed awake. She suggested I went into another room and sat down and read a book, looked at a magazine for 15-30 minutes or listened to soothing music before going back to bed. But she urged me not to look at my phone or iPad.
The psychologist that I spoke to also suggested I keep an activity/sleep diary. I wrote down what I had done that day and then how I had slept. It helped to identify patterns. I found that even if I had taken a short walk or just been out in the garden during the day, my sleep was often better.
All of these tips for good “sleep hygiene” can be very helpful, but if you continue to have sleep problems and have true insomnia to the extent that you can’t get to sleep when you go to bed and or you’re awake for hours in the night, then there are trained sleep professionals who can provide a form of CBT that may help you. This involves looking at your sleep and creating sleep schedules along with other professional advice. Speak to your treatment team for advice, or contact your GP to see if you can get an NHS referral.
Louisa Rasmussen who runs the excellent www.breathebalancebe.com was diagnosed with secondary breast cancer in 2017. She offers some breathing tips that could help you with sleep.
What comes before sleeping? Breathing! Healthy, easy breathing during the day can help us get a better night’s sleep at night. How we breathe affects our mental, physical and emotional state, which all have an impact on our sleep quality. Some daytime breathing tips for a good night’s rest include:
Once you’re comfy in bed in your favourite sleeping position, imagine that you’re breathing in calm and relaxation, and breathing out any tension. If you wake in the night, remember that is ok and it’s natural for us to wake sometimes at night. We can come back to slow soft breaths; breathing in for a count of three, pausing gently for a count of two and exhaling for a count of five. Continue that a few times and allow yourself to return to sleep for the rest of the night. Try not to be too hard on yourself, the harder we try the harder it is. Soft easy breaths day and night can help our body and mind to get better rest.
Laura Ashurst, a mindfulness meditation teacher offers some mindfulness ideas to help with sleep.
A diagnosis of breast cancer is a traumatic life event that triggers our stress response. Our increased levels of adrenalin and cortisol can often detrimentally impact upon the production of melatonin, our precursor to sleep.
My personal experience of a mastectomy to my right breast followed by an immediate reconstruction on the same day using part of my latissimus dorsi muscle and skin tissue from the right side of my back, meant that I was unable to go to sleep on either my right side or my back, both of which were my usual sleeping positions. With the use of a carefully-positioned pillow, placed in such a way that I didn’t roll over on to my right side, I had to learn to sleep on my left side. In the weeks and months following my surgery, this really affected my quality of sleep.
From a mindfulness perspective, there are several techniques that we can use as part of sleep preparation to help induce the process of sleep and to help during periods of being awake during the night when sleep feels as though it’s far from reach.
Making mindful choices about our intake of alcohol and caffeine during waking hours can impact greatly upon sleep patterns. Some sleep experts suggest making a choice not to drink caffeinated beverages past 2pm. This reduces adrenalin and cortisol levels to allow optimal production of melatonin, which helps us sleep.
Instead of a drink containing caffeine, we can choose to have a soothing herbal tea. The process of creating a mindful pause as we enjoy the drink allows us to slow down as we focus on that one activity. Mindfully drinking the tea will dampen down our stress responses, and could look like:
What we do in the hour leading up to bedtime is really important as part of mindful sleep preparation. Making a conscious choice to limit exposure to tech and mobile phones in the hour before bedtime really does help. Our stress hormones naturally spike during scrolling, as our brains make comparisons and judgements triggered by what we see on our screens.
Belly breathing helps to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, stimulating the process of ‘rest and digest’. This helps to naturally reduce the output of adrenalin and cortisol that the sympathetic nervous system stimulates. Choosing to consciously breathe in this way, for five to ten minutes at bedtime, generates feelings of relaxation and calm. Belly breathing can be done in a seated upright position, in a standing position or, and if you’re able to, lying in a supine position, on your back.
Breast Cancer Now has a useful page on its website about sleep disruption during breast cancer treatment
Macmillan Cancer Support has information on its website if you’re having trouble as a result of a cancer diagnosis and treatment
This NHS website which is part of the Every Mind Matters campaign has some useful tips on sleep.
This NHS website has advice on sleep & tiredness
This is an NHS website offering advice on insomnia
Dr Michael Mosley has a new podcast called Sleep Well which you can find on the BBC Sounds App
Do speak to your treatment team if you are having sleep issues. They may have advice, and could refer you to local services that can offer more help.
Future Dreams hold a range of support groups, classes, workshops and events to help you and your carers during your breast cancer diagnosis. These are held both online and in person at the London-based Future Dreams House. To see what’s on offer and to book your place, see here.
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August 2023
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